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What began as an intro to our COPE Newsletter has become a journal of sorts, of thoughts and feelings over the years…
Dear COPE Families, There are circumstances in every relationship that may cause us moments of regret. With grief comes regret. Regret for all that we’re missing…regret for all that our loved ones missed. Regret for what we didn’t say…regret for …
Dear COPE Families, This will be the first Mother’s Day without my mother. Her loss has brought up all my other losses. Loss triggers loss. My relationship with my mother has brought to the surface my relationship with my daughter. …
Dear COPE Families, I’ve been talking to the other side for 26 years. This past week, it brought tears to my eyes and pain to my heart to add my mother to that circle of souls. During the time prior …
Dear COPE Families, From the time that my daughter passed away from me, l have searched for her, looking for anything to ease my suffering from the pain of separation. I found us in dreams, COPE, signs, messages, …
Dear COPE Families, The last time I was in Arizona was 1991, three months before my daughter, Michelle, passed on Jan 25 in 1992. She had been attending the University of Arizona and met me at the airport. I have resisted …
Words from COPE President and Founder, Lillian Julien Dear COPE Families, Since loss drastically changed our lives, any change can be difficult. At a time when I was filled with fear, a therapist suggested I look at each day with “curiosity” rather …
Dear COPE Families, Holidays are a time when we may find ourselves struggling or even wrestling with our thoughts and emotions. We may feel that things must be done in a certain way or not at all. When we become aware …
Words from COPE President and Founder, Lillian Julien Dear COPE Families, I live with a hole in my heart. Often around the holidays, I fall in. I once had a dream that I fell into a manhole. Strangely, I landed …
Words from COPE President and Founder, Lillian Julien Dear COPE Families, As I struggle to find my voice (due to a vocal chord problem), I am reminded of my loss for words after each of my devastating losses. I had no …
As a mother, I write about Father’s Day, remembering my children’s father. I am a mother because of him. If not for him, I would not have my precious children. Robert Julien was a great father. He shopped. He carpooled. …