Annual Brick Dedication

COPE Labyrinth

COPE has dedicated a permanent labyrinth in Eisenhower Park’s Memorial Plaza, sustaining the bonds that connect us to our loved ones who have passed.

The labyrinth is an ancient symbolic path with healing and spiritual significance that dates back to the third millennium B.C.E. It has been used within many cultures and spiritual traditions throughout the world.

For many, labyrinths represent life’s journey or spiritual pilgrimage.

Walking the labyrinth often produces a calming, centering feeling. The alternating balancing motion can quiet one’s body, mind and spirit, often inducing a receptive state for meditation and contemplation in the center of the labyrinth.

Join others who are dedicating memorial bricks and honor your child, sibling, or loved one in this tranquil, sacred space.

COPE Memory

Directions to COPE’s Labyrinth

Located behind the Lannin Carriage House, Field 6A

Eisenhower Park
East Meadow, NY 11554
(516) 832-2673

Once in Eisenhower Park:

Follow the signs for the Lannin House or Field 6A across the parking lot (#6) from the Harry Chapin Lakeside Theater. You will see a large stone building with a small parking lot in front of it. The COPE Labyrinth is located behind the building.

The address for Eisenhower Park, if you are using a navigation system, is:

Eisenhower Park
1899 Hempstead Tpke
East Meadow, NY 11554

Brick Dedication 2024

Thank you to everyone who joined us on October 27 for our annual Memorial Dedication Ceremony! Check out photos of our event below.

It was a bright autumn day as our community arrived at the COPE labyrinth to see the names of their loved ones engraved on the bricks in the outer circle of the labyrinth. Facilitator Charlene Ray was moved watching individuals take photos of the bricks, run their fingers over the names, or leave flowers.

Opening the program with the poem, “I am Here” byIris Hesselden initiated conversation. “Often, I find the poets can capture in words what we long to say,”

Ray said. She then spoke about the seasonal and cultural importance of this time of year (Samhain, All Souls Day, Dia de los Muertos) as a time where many believe the veil is thin between worlds and invite the ancestors to connect by putting up their photos, eating their favorite foods, lighting candles, creating altars, sharing memories, and tending to burial sites. Attendees spent a short time either journaling or reflecting on the questions, “What is Autumn showing me about letting go?” “What does my heart need right now?” and “How do I connect with my loved one at this time?” Some people shared and many people spoke the name of their loved ones out loud. The group talked about the importance of saying their names as one way to honor them and the ongoing relationship.

“It was good to clarify that we are not letting go of the person or even the grief,” said Ray, “rather we are letting go of what gets in the way of our full expression of the grief, of finding moments of joy in our lives. Letting go of unhelpful things people say
and anything that is not supportive.” Ray also introduced the idea that many herbs can be supportive during times of grief and gave everyone a list and encouraged them to learn more.

COPE Executive Director Adam Rabinovitch led the brick dedication and sharing. Ray invited everyone into the labyrinth to walk and connect with their loved ones using the three stages of labyrinth walking: Releasing, Receiving, and Returning. As they walked out of the labyrinth, participants brought a tea light to the brick with the name of their loved one who died. It was a beautiful and meaningful, heartfelt ceremony.

The event concluded with a verse by the American poet, W.S. Merwin:
Your absence has gone through me 
Like thread through a needle,
Everything I do is stitched with its color.

Click here to find out more about Charlene Ray: https://www.charleneray.com/

 

Pat Traenkle
1939-2023
Lovemykids6

Our Sisters
Grace & Patti
Fly Free

Ryan Campis
Always With Us
Forever Missed
In Loving Memory
Of Joey Patane
1964 – 2023
Thomas
Criscitelli
Forever Loved
Jarryl J Smith
June 94-Dec 22
Live With Purpose
In memory
beloved son
Doug Feldman
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efreshchef
forever smiling
John Marsden
Love u forever
Always with us
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“Cypress”
2000 – 2024
Joan
Fields
TKH
Meaghan Burton
I miss you
more than life

ARI ELBERG
“ALL GOOD
THINGS”

John Kurtz
1971 – 2021
Miss you a lot

SUSAN BENDER
CAPANELLI
FOREVER LOVED

JEFF FELDMAN
LOVE YOU
MOM DAD & JENN
ANTHONY
ON
EAGLE’S WINGS
JENNIFER BELL
ALWAYS WITH US
FOREVER LOVED
JEFF ZUKERMAN
FOREVER LOVED
MOM STEVEN AMY

ALWAYS WITH US
MICHAEL SCOTT
BLOOMBERG

MUCH LOVED
CANTOR DAVID
TAUBER-WIENER

HEATH A. BOGIN
FOREVER
IN OUR HEARTS

BRIAN SCOTT
BAIKO
MY BELOVED SON

KENNETH DITZEL
A GOOD MAN
FOREVER LOVED

JOSHUA LINK
FOREVER LOVED
ALWAYS WITH US

OUR BORROWED
ANGEL
REBEKAH FRUCHT

RUSSELL CIOLLI
1972-2011
FOREVER MISSED

MIKE DIMARIA
UNTIL WE
MEET AGAIN

FOR RACHEL
WE WILL LOVE
YOU ALWAYS

IN MEMORY OF
DEBORAH BARNES
WE LOVE YOU

NICOLE T RUSSO
MY SWEET ANGEL
LOVE YOU, MOM

REBECCA”BECCA”
AT PEACE WITH
JAMES E GUERIN

JANNA SAGE
TOO CLOSE TO
NOT BE CLOSE

KELLY C BURTON
REST IN PEACE
1985 – 2013

KARA
SATALLANTE
1989 – 2011

SPORTS, LOVE FUN,
LAUGHTER
SANDY-ALFRED

LOVE’S ETERNAL
KERRI MARIE
JACKOWSKI

ROBBY MINER
8/7/87-1/3/13
U.S. NAVY MA 2

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6/21/85-7/7/14
UR MY SUNSHINE

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“RESILIENT”
LOVE ALWAYS

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FOREVER LOVED!

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FOREVER LOVED
1968-2005

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SOMEWHERE OVER
THE RAINBOW

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MEMORY OF
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REMEMBERING
PETER CORPUEL
EMERMAN FAMILY

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SCHIFFER
THE BEST

FOREVER LOVED
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THE VERY BEST

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LOVE U FOREVER
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THEBEATLIVESON

STACEY KESSLER
ALWAYS IN
OUR HEARTS

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MARQUARDT
FOREVER LOVED

IN MEMORY OF
SHARON NICOLE
GALLUCCI

MIKEY RICATTO
LOVING SON
“FOREVER 29”

RYAN L SIMS
CHERISHED SON
BROTHER FRIEND

KALMAN & JOAN
SLOVIN
WE MISS YOU

IN MEMORY OF
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RICK PRINCE

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STAR ON EARTH
STAR IN HEAVEN

SAMUEL
ROSENBLATT
MY DAD

NICOLE NOGID
LIVES FOREVER
IN OUR HEARTS

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LOVE U FOREVER
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MADDIE’S DADDY
LOVE U FOREVER

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5-25-1993
I CAME TO FLY

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FOREVER YOUNG
FOREVER LOVED

MISSING ARAM
GOOD NIGHT
SWEET PRINCE

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APPELBAUM

OUR LOVE LIVES
ROBERT JULIEN

GWYN SULLIVAN
WE MISS YOU
SEAN & WILL

LIZ CLOSTER
FOREVER OUR
MOUNTAIN GIRL

IN OUR HEARTS
BARBARA ROGERS
DEVOTED MOTHER

MY BELOVED
LAWRENCE
LOVE ALWAYS

BRIAN J. HOM
WHOM WE LOVE
AND MISS

GIAVANNA MARIE
MELOMO
LOVE OUR ANGEL

JESSE RADOWITZ
5/3/77-5/6/07
MISSED♥♥LOVED

SPENCER WEISS
IN OUR HEARTS
FOREVER

SEMPER FI
JAY BELOVED
BROTHER & SON

HILDA & HARRY
KIRSCH
INTEGRITY

GILAD VADAY
FOREVER
IN OUR HEARTS

PETER KALISCIK
FOREVER YOUNG
8/13/88-5/1/13

LOVING MEMORY
OF MIKE YEDID
SON & BROTHER

WE LOVE YOU
JAY W. PIEL
FOREVER

FRAN SHARP
AUSLANDER
FOREVER

MICHAEL LASSIG
LOVED & MISSED
EVERY DAY

IN LOVING
MEMORY OF
SHAWN TIERNEY

DEAREST ADAM
KEEP “SMILING”
DOWN ON US

CHRISTINA E
ANGELO
1989-2010

FOREVER IN OUR
HEARTS
ALYSSA SEAMAN

SARITA
ROBINSON
LOVED BY ALL

5 JULS
ETERNALLY
IN OUR HEARTS

OUR ANGEL
ANTHONY JOSEPH
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CLIFFORDDESENA
9+24+908+16+12

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GUEZZE
8+2+90 2+18+11

OUR MICHELLE
YOU LIVE ON IN
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KRAMER FUCHS B
SEYMOUR EVELYN
CELIA ADOLF

BRAD LEFFE
OUR RAY OF
SUNSHINE

ADELE & SAMUEL
KEENHOLTZ
FOREVER LOVED

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FOREVER LOVED
FOREVER 25

DAVID “COOP”
COOPERMAN
FOREVER LOVED

NOAH S. SHER
WE LOVE YOU
SHER FAMILY

ERIC C. DOLL
SOUL RIDER
ALWAYS WITH US

STEVEN TASSIS
MY BELOVED SON
SO VERY MISSED

NICHOLAS RICCI
MY EVERYTHING
LOVE U, MOM

LAUREN REED
YOUR BEAUTY
LIVES ON

M & A DEFALCO
MUSIC OF MY
MY LOVE, DONNAD

IN MEMORY OF
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LOVE MNSA 2016

IN OUR HEARTS
SKATE BOARDING
MIKE BOSCIANO

JACOB H. ROTH
…YOUR SMILE
SHINES FOREVER

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LOVINGANDLOVED
FOREVERAMONGUS

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LIVES FOREVER
IN OUR HEARTS

BRIAN E. DIONE
BELOVED SON
BROTHER

KLK, BABY THOR
LOVE U MISS U
BEAUTIFUL BOY

IN MEMORY OF
KENNETH LIAM
KREUSCHER

GAIL HARRIS
UNTIL WE
MEET AGAIN

STEVEN WOLKOFF
1977 – 2008
LOVE FOREVER

CLAUDIA & RAUL
BELOVED SISTER
& DAD FOREVER

TO OUR MOTHER
RACHEL
WE LOVE YOU

JAMES PRESCOTT
1968 – 2014
FOREVER LOVED

FOREVER IN OUR
HEARTS
MICHAEL FAILLA

ZAYNA CONNOLLY
2012 – 2015
BE HAPPY

JAVIERTA“JAVI”
MY SWEET ANGEL
LOVE YOU, MOM

LARRY
ALAS HE CAN
DIED WITH HIS

MARCUS
NOT SING, BUT
MUSIC IN HIM

JULIA
BRIGHT, STRONG
MISS AND LOVE

ZELMANOVICH,MD
COMPASSIONATE
YOU FOREVER

BRYAN L. REAVY
8/15/99-4/7/18
FRIENDS FOREVER

SKYDIVING
SOARING HIGH
ALEXIS HELENA

LIKE A BIRD
A SHOOTINGSTAR
ZAYAS ♥ ♥ ♥

STEVEN A STEEN
FOREVER LOVED
WITH US ALWAYS

JUDY, YOU ARE
IN MY HEART &
SOUL FOREVER!

FOREVER
IN OUR HEARTS
JOSEPH NICKEL

KEVIN KEATING
COURAGEOUS SON
BE AT PEACE

PAT POSILLICO
FOREVER LOVED
FOREVER MISSED

ROSA MARIA
I LOVE AND
MISS YOU MOM.

PATRICK MURPHY
UNTIL WE
MEET AGAIN

JEFF BELL
MISSED SO MUCH
MOM,DAD,RACH

FRANK ROBINSON
ALWAYS LOVED
FOREVER MISSED

TARANJIT KAUR
PARMAR
FOREVER MISSED

DAVE GREENBERG
FOREVER
OUR LOVE

FRAN AND BOB
MICHELSON
LOVING PARENTS

♡ CHRISTINE ♡
GUARDIANO
IN LITE & LOVE

SCOTT WEINGARD
BONNIE & STEVE
IN OUR HEARTS

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MCLAUGHLIN
IN OUR HEARTS

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ALWAYS & 4EVER
1988 – 2015

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FOREVER
IN OUR HEARTS

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MUSICAL SOUL
1980-2017?

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CASTELLANO
LOVE YOU, MOM

PATRIC MARTIN
ALWAYS LOVED
OUR HEART ♡

RALPHIE
5/12/93-5/6/18
FOREVER LOVED

TRINITY ALEXIS
A WILD FLOWER
WE LOVE YOU XO

PROVERBS 19:21
WE LOVE YOU
“JOE-BEAR”

DINO LEZAJA
SON & BROTHER
WITH OUR LORD

FRANKIE
BELOVED
SON & BROTHER

IN MEMORY OF
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LOVING MOM NANA

SEAN ALGER
LOVE U FOREVER
6/30/86 – 6/15/10

RAYMOND J RUE
FOREVER LOVED
FOREVER YOUNG

OUR
BORROWEDANGEL
CHEECH 2019

DANA EWALD
ALWAYS
IN OUR HEARTS

CIEL WILLIAMS
FOREVER
IN OUR HEARTS

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9/11/80-7/2/18

JUSTIN TYMEFOREVER
LOVED
FOREVER MISSED

DAVI FOREVER
IN OUR HEARTS

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DTR-BEST FRIEND
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2/1/50-6/18/02

NICK TURTOLA
RIDE ON FREE
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Eliana Tale
Always Loved,
Forever With Us

BENNY CIUFFO
Forever
In Our Hearts

ETERNAL LOVE
INFINITE LIGHT
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THE12thOFNEVER

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Loving Memory
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Our Star
Shines 4 Ever

ANYU APU

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ENDLESS LOVE

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PLAYING
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MOTHER IN LAW

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OUR ANGELS
IN HEAVEN

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ANGEL WARRIOR
GREATEST SON

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MACCHIO CUGINA
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YOU’RE A STAR
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