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Parent Column e1732717999400

February, 2017

Martina Sternberg, PhD, NCC writes about her son Josh…. I wanted to write something in this newsletter to honor my son, Joshua, who died Jan 24,...

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Poems Writing

You’re My Star, My Dear

© Alex more by Alex , Published on July 2011 The beam shines down, The rays so bright, The stars come forward, At the dead of night. I feel you...

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Parent Column e1732717999400

February, 2017

Martina Sternberg, PhD, NCC writes about her son Josh…. I wanted to write something in this newsletter to honor my son, Joshua, who died Jan 24,...

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Healing Tip e1732717788492

Coping

From COPE Clinical Director Amy Olshever, PhD, LCSW Losing a loved one stays with us forever. But holidays, in particular, can be grief triggers...

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Healing Tip e1732717788492

Mindfulness

From COPE Clinical Director Amy Olshever, PhD, LCSW Now that you have managed to make it through the rigors of the holiday season, the new year...

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Parent Column e1732717999400

January, 2017

By Esther Bogin My son Heath is with me in my good and bad times, even though he died March 8, 2015.  The hole in my being (my heart, soul...

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Poems Writing

Someone I love has gone away

Someone I love has gone away and life is not the same, the greatest gift that you can give is just to speak their name. I need to hear the...

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COPE Contributors

January, 2017

Words from COPE President and Founder Lilly Julien “What will I do with my love for you?" a grieving mother calls out in desperation. “Just love...

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COPE Contributors

December, 2016

Words from COPE President and Founder Lilly Julien On Thanksgiving, I gave thanks for COPE, all of our facilitators, directors, and volunteers...

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Poems Writing

Some Day

COPE Parent Sandi Bloomberg wrote this poem for her daughter in law. He’s just gone for a little while Some day in the future You’ll again...

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Crazy Upside Down Life

Crazy Upside Down Life In memory of my beloved son, Jay Jimenez     - E. J. Barbera   Sun’s out at night, moths fly from...

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Life is Eternal

Life is Eternal If wishing makes it so won't you let me know that life is eternal and love is immortal and death is only a horizon Life is...

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To Where You Are

To Where You Are Who can say for certain, maybe you're still here ~ I feel you all around me, your memory so clear. Deep within the stillness I...

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As far as I can see….

As far as I can see, grief will never truly end. It may become softer over time, more gentle, and some days will feel sharp. But grief will last...

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Now that I am gone….

Now that I am gone, remember me with smiles and laughter. And if you need to cry, cry with your brother or sister who walks in grief beside you....

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We Remember Them

We Remember Them In the rising of the sun and in its going down,
 We remember them; In the blowing of the wind and in the chill of...

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Living With Loss

The truest words of all: I will not forget you.ʉ۬You are in my waking thoughts,ʉ۬my sweetest memories, my dearest dreams.ʉ۬I will...

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