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July 2017

Words from COPE President and Founder, Lillian Julien Dear COPE Families, As I struggle to find my voice (due to a vocal chord problem), I...

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June 2017

"My sister will die over and over again for the rest of my life. Grief is forever. It doesn't go away; it becomes a part of you, step for step,...

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Poems Writing

The Trees, June 2017

The trees are coming into leaf Like something almost being said; The recent buds relax and spread, Their greenness is a kind of grief.   Is...

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COPE Contributors

June 2017

As a mother, I write about Father's Day, remembering my children's father. I am a mother because of him. If not for him, I would not have my...

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The Courage to Grieve, June 2017

Living with grief demands courage: the courage to keep living; the courage to learn from our losses; the courage to ask for help when we need it,...

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May, 2017

Tom's Mom, Janet Shavel writes:   As all of us grieve the loss of our children, somehow for me - perhaps...

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Poems Writing

May, 2017

OUR LOVING SON KENNETH LACKS   They say there is a reason, They say that time will heal, But neither time nor reason, Will change the way we...

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COPE Contributors

May, 2017

Words from COPE President and Founder, Lillian Julien Dear COPE Families, I was shattered by the loss of my child until I gradually found...

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April 2017

   My older son, Larry Marcus was killed in an auto accident at college on 4-14-83 at the age of 23 yrs. It happened a few months...

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Poems Writing

To Honor You…

To honor you, I get up everyday and take a breath. And start another day without you in it. To honor you, I laugh and love with those who knew...

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March 2017

 I was introduced to a golden retriever close to my sons first anniversary. He was so comforting. I asked the owner where she got her dog...

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Springtime Grief

From COPE Clinical Director Amy Olshever, PhD, LCSW How do you feel when you see the purple and yellow of new crocuses? Or at the arrival of the...

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COPE Contributors

April, 2017

Words from COPE President and Founder, Lillian Julien  Dear COPE Families, As we look forward to warmer temperatures of spring, we...

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COPE Contributors

March, 2017

Words from COPE President and Founder, Lillian Julien Dear COPE Families, Writing is a powerful tool. As I recently looked through past...

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COPE Contributors

February, 2017

Words from COPE President and Founder Lilly Julien “On the outside I'm trying to be brave and tough. On the inside my heart is breaking.” These...

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